Gogo (neregistrovaný) 08.02.2019, 18:50:16
Nedávno se zde propírali narcisti a narcisky...
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What frightens a narcissist?
Good question. In my exposure and fully vetted experience with a narcissist, I think there are two primary things that frighten a narcissist.
Not being in Control or losing Control
Those two things are what frightens a narcissist or anyone with absolutely no conscience who qualifies as a legitimate cluster b personality type all of which share that common thread of having no conscience.
The Narcissist or the unconscionable types want and need to think they are in control and will only persist in relationships where they can maintain that control. If they don’t think they can continue to use manipulation and deception tactics to exploit you and benefit from you any longer, which means a point has come where they recognize that they are losing or have lost control, then they don’t just get frightened - they get filled with often silent rage, resentment, and will resort to overt or covert retaliation to make you want to leave them - which is what they want at the point where they know they have lost control.
Their final act is often trying to make you want to leave them to, once again, control things all the way to the very end. And, if you put up a strong enough of a fight, they will sacrifice that final act of trying to control how the relationship ends and leave you first because the more you push them back down with the facts, truth, indefensible evidence, etc the closer you are to exposing them and slapping that mask off their face.
And they fear and hate being exposed even more than losing control. They spend a lot of mental effort and energy on protecting and isolating themselves from exposure well in advance of any potential exposure they might face later on down the road. I wouldn't waste your time trying to expose them and here’s why. By the time you get to the point of even knowing there is something to expose, they were already way ahead of you and they usually plan well in advance on how to deal with you and any situation where you might try and expose them. They usually have a plan that entails using any effort you might launch to expose them for their benefit while simultaneously adding onto your detriment.
These people are the asshole of the assholes and are always planning and ready to twist and manipulate any situation and circumstances to their benefit no matter how cold...
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